How to Win Ex Back

Created by exback101winexba on Friday, May 29, 2009

Tagged:
,
,
,
,

So you got dumped by your boyfriend or girlfriend and it doesn't just hurt, it seems so very wrong. You may be wondering what happened. You did your best, but she decided to move on. With four easy steps we'll help make sure you have a shot at winning your ex back.
Step one: figure out what actually went wrong.
Step two: Relax and create distance.
Nothing pushes someone away more than persistence. Think about that shopping assistant that asked you if you needed help every two minutes. If you are overly anxious to win your ex back, you are that clerk. Desperation is unattractive and lessens your own self worth. It is a fact that human hearts are drawn to that which is rare. You can easily turn yourself into gold by making yourself rare. You should not disappear compeltely, but have fun, enjoy life and let her know what you are doing now.
Step three: Get a life.
This stop is focusing on you. Reflect on some aspects of your life that you have always wanted to improve. Maybe you always wanted to learn an instrument or write a book. Now is a great opportunity to do all those things you wanted to. The best part is that you will lead a full life and as a side benefit add to your desirability index.
Step four: Make friends.
It sounds counter to everything you may have heard about dating but you should enter the friend zone. Your partner should be your friend. Perhaps what went wrong in the first place was a lack of true understanding that friendship affords. A Relationship based on physical attraction or emotional neediness is doomed for failure. A strong friendship is the best foundation for a strong relationship.
Finally, remember that it takes two to tango. There is nothing you can do to make someone return. However, if you build a strong confidence and sense of self worth within yourself you will have at least the chance getting her back.
** I'll take you by the hand and show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your ex lover back in your arms- Especially if you are the only one trying... CLICK HERE

Did you like this story? Make one of your own!

Log in

Log in

Forgot Password?


or Register

Got An Idea? Get Started!

NEW TO QUIZILLA?

Feel like taking a personality quiz or testing your knowledge? Check out the Ultimate List.

If you're in the mood for a story, head over to the Stories Hub.

It's easy to find something you're into at Quizilla - just use the search box or browse our tags.

Ready to take the next step? Sign up for an account and start creating your own quizzes, stories, polls, poems and lyrics.

It's FREE and FUN.