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April 15, 2011
You happy, so I'm happy
As a doctor, and patients deal with every day, used to seeing illness and death, have been very few things where I moved.That day I had a breast cancer admissions in patients over fifty years old, because it was discovered too late, the disease has come late, and the lungs have been transferred, surgery has no meaning.In my opinion, this patient had no use spending money to see a doctor in their lifetime Eat drink is decent.My views have been clear to the patient's husband had, and see how he is sad and lost, he was disappointed that simply make me look guilty.
Modern disease patients in advocating the right to know, I was considering how to explain the disease and the patient.The woman's husband came in, but also the way shut it doors.Looks like a very respectful man, a little fumble, and he said to me ramble a lot to say.I finally listen to understand, and he asked me not to tell the severity of his wife, because she did not know, just thought it was a small breast tumor on the long, cut off all right.
This is not surprising that many families of patients have such requirements, they were afraid of sick people who can not withstand the hit and lose confidence in life.In fact, too, clinical practice, many cancer patients die not because of the deterioration and the development of the disease, but because of that illness to live after losing the confidence of patients, this will speed up the patient's death.
I naturally agreed to his request, while surgery is no longer much sense, he said, he can save a surgery, you can use the money to his wife, eating good, or more fun.He suggested that I also I have a friend in thefngmhngngbm
travel agency, if he wanted to, he can take his wife to Hong Kong to play around, and my friends said I could give them the best price.
To my surprise, he firmly requested operation must be done, but as long as the removal of small tumors on the breast can be, and he said he knew his wife's condition did not help, but his wife can be assured thatShe thought that she really just got a little sick, not a serious illness.See he loves his wife, he is very determined, I have only promised to arrange surgery.
On the same day afternoon, I was working, a face,fngmhngngbm
a woman comes into the room calm, that female patients.I observe her, as she is a modest woman, dressed simply looks mediocre, very thin is also very old, and all aspects that are an ordinary people's ordinary woman, not what the surface charm, butI know her man loves her.
She did not talk much, but very direct and well organized, it let me know she is a very rational woman.She meant roughly three: first, she said she knew her condition because she had been a long time ago in the village barefoot doctor, she has read the relevant aspects of the book at home, do you look kind of baddisease, and has been very serious.Second, she asked me not to tell her husband the actual illness, she said, she is her take care of him in this life, old and do not want to worry too much about him.Third, she asked for surgery, but as long as the removal of small tumors on her breast can be, and make it look to comfort her husband, thought she was really only a minor disease.
Clarity woman said, and I have stared, and I can not think of a couple in a different time for me to do the same request.
At some point, I thought she was deliberately to test the actual situation to the disease I know.But soon I knew I was wrong, in the end she really know what ails.I have only good words with good words to tell her she really did not think her condition as serious, as long as the surgery can cure the finish.She calmly smiled and interrupted me, she said, thank you, doctor, I know my illness, I ask of you to his secret.
I'm do not know what to do when the woman's husband came in the door and saw a woman look after the look of fear.Woman met him, but first he said: "You've come just. You see, I just asked the doctor, the doctor said, I this is just a small fibroids, and made a minor cut on the right, just like tenLong years ago, my cousin, like that. She is now all right! "women look brilliant smile, pretend to not see any trace of the men look very happy," is the thing, surgical cut on the right,Let's go, do not delay the work of the doctors. "woman got up to arm with a man went out, when the provisional go back to a woman but also specifically said to me," Thank you. "
They look like really happy she only suffered a small problem, not to talk about the mere mention of "cancer."At that moment, looked at them two old but has a childlike innocence smile on the face, and they have a slightly bent back, I suddenly filled with moving, used to seeing the human world of illness and death, I thought I had numbness, but for the moment I touched the old couple for their profound feelings of love.I had to urge to do something for them, and I can do?
I follow their advice, in fact, I have no choice, surgery is very small, I just did what I could do.
Later, they quickly out of the hospital, discharge time, the husband went to my clinic, I was not blushing asked to travel can really offer a lot.He said he would take his wife to Hong Kong to play, to see a false picture of the world, he said, followed his wife what he did not enjoy the blessing, he wanted her to be happy in their lifetime to live in, but little money,Please help me see if I can offer something more.I certainly incumbent, I'm looking for my friend as a tour guide gave him the best price, and asked my friends alongfngmhngngbm
the way to improve care for them.
Later, I heard friends say that this old couple he had ever seen one of the most loving the elderly, the Tour of Hong Kong happiest couple.Finally, he gave me a video, is that the old couple's Hong Kong trip, they said he was grateful to me, know I'm very concerned about them, so he recorded, like let me know how happy they are now.
Listening to my friends complained that a sudden gush of my mind saying: you happy, so I'm happy.
