Well I'm falling for my best friend's cousin, but there's a problem. He's seventeen [going to be eighteen in August] and I'm fourteen. I'm willing to try to get him to like me, but what do y'all think of the age difference? I'm really mature for my age if that helps, lol. I just don't want the age gap to cause problems.
Edit: Just so y'all know, he isn't for sex lol. He's too 'innocent' lmao.
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So.. there's this older guy...
Posted at 11:43 PM EST on Saturday, March 29, 2008
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@ 9:16 PM EST on Tuesday, November 18, 2008, Luvpuppy said:
its kinda illegal right now for the age difference but if u LOVE him then its ur choice@ 9:05 PM EST on Wednesday, April 2, 2008, sasuke4-ever said:
i think if u really like him then age shouldnt matter! but, do be careful...while age doesnt matter he is still a boy so dont let him get um...carried away.@ 1:31 AM EST on Tuesday, April 1, 2008, sungemini said:
Well, as much as i would like to tell you that age doesn't matter. For teenagers it really does. It's interesting, and somewhat frustrating, but somehow being 4 years apart when your younger is different from being 4 years apart when your older. I understand that you may be really mature, but I think that the age difference right now would bring up a lot of awkward situations. I don't think it would necessary lead to sex like others have stated, but there is a difference there. Of course, i'm pretty apathetic and logical, and not that much of a romantic...so if you think i'm wrong then that should be your answer right there!! Of course....if you need to ask us that might be your answer already, even if you weren't ready to admit it to yourself. But whatever way you choose I really hope it turns out ok!! Good luck!!@ 2:30 AM EST on Sunday, March 30, 2008, XalchemyXmagicX said:
I say do what your heart wants. :) My parents are 7 years apart and happily married. Four years is nothing to me! Lol!@ 11:54 PM EST on Saturday, March 29, 2008, Mischievousfey said:
Hey! I don't really think age is that big of a difference and the gap really diminishes as you get older! Is he going to college next year or will he be a senor in hs? Its not always about you being more mature than other 14 yr olds its just that guys in general tend to be pretty immature at any age (lol) and you want to make sure he won't try and take advantage of you b/c you are younger and he thinks you are naive. In the end it is up to you and him to make it work.@ 11:52 PM EST on Saturday, March 29, 2008, candylandxparadise said:
you should probably take into consideration that most guys that age will be expecting sex. that's just how they are... older guys are, well older. so if you aren't ready for a relationship like that yet they won't wait around (unless they are REALLY nice a care about you LOTS)