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me? a lesbian?!
i've been thinking about it a lot lately, and i actually might be a lesbian. this is insane! i don't really see guys as hott as i used to, but i have a boyfriend! i've always been turned on at the thought of a hott girl, but guys just don't seem as attractive as they used to be. i love my boyfriend and all, but i'm not sure if i should come out this soon or just keep it secret. please message me! i really need advice on this. u could IM me on XMiSeRABlYYOuRSx. im so upset by all this!!
Posted at 8:26 PM EST on Saturday, April 1, 2006
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@ 8:46 PM EST on Thursday, April 20, 2006, xprettyxdollxeyesx said:
Darling, Honestly---it could all be pheromones. I've had friends who think that they like girls and yet, lo and behold, half a year to a year later they end up breaking hearts that were never meant to have crossed paths. I think possibly, do you know any lesbians or for sure Bi people? If you do set a date and go out (not like a 'date' more like a chat) and talk over it, explain and get her view on it. If your still attracted to women then go hang around some 'out' girls, see what the lifestyle is---it's more then two pretty blondes fondling each other. If it's their bodies your interested in I wouldnt call you a lesbian, if you honestly look at these girls and talk to them and 'get to know' them a bit and think, /wow, this is like the piece of me that's been missing!? go for it babe. this has been a paid rant by the founders of bored little hawaiian lesbians. -skittles@ 1:19 AM EST on Friday, April 14, 2006, hotty6666 said:
I recomend, first, evaluate your SEXUAL interest in your boy friend. then, if you find there is none, then dump him... but don't come out to him emediately, wait a bit... then, don't come out all at once, but don't let it bottle up... if you do that, either: A) it will overwhelm people and scare them off, or B) you will feel out of place, and guilty, besides, never stay in the closet, especially if you are in a relationship with a girl... but, just take my advice mildly, because, even I wouldn't trust a 16 year old, psycotic, ward patient, sex abuse case... but that may just be me... wait... it IS me... lol... well, do what you think feels right, and down rush, or over-stall... it'll only hurt you... but, I wouldn't know, I came out all at once, and it was hard not to, concidering that I pretty-much attempt to murder every guy who hits on me...@ 6:08 PM EST on Friday, April 7, 2006, XxEmoLoserxX said:
i have been thinking about girls all the time and i always liked girls though@ 2:42 PM EST on Tuesday, April 4, 2006, radishgirl506 said:
ya no, i was just talking with my good friend cecy 2day about lesbians. its just a diferent kind of love, and there is nothing wrong with it. i have suspicions that im bi, so maybe we could either IM (im librarianlady101) or i could message u. :)@ 12:38 AM EST on Monday, April 3, 2006, Althaeaa said:
First of all, you should probably know that all girls (and guys) have doubts about their sexuality--especially in their early teens and/or when they first begin dating. It's normal! When I was seventeen I thought I was a lesbian for a whole year. Though, it turned out (I found this out with quite a bit of experimenting) that the only reason I was turned on by hot girls was because I wanted to BE one. So, take a while to just evaluate yourself. And I mean REALLY think it through. You don't have to decide right away what your sexual preference is, just let it develop over time. You may be surprised at what happens. And, if you decide you are a lesbian, it's no big deal! It's just part of life.@ 8:26 AM EST on Sunday, April 2, 2006, NJDude48 said:
First, what you need to do is step back and take a deep breath to clear your head. Now you said you are still with your b/f. that tells me your interested in guys also if not you would have dumped him already. You may just me Bisexaul. So dont beat yourself up so hard. One can enjoy both worlds. the only way you are going to really understand yourself is to explore your deepest feelings. and your come out when you are ready to let people know your inter self.@ 9:02 PM EST on Saturday, April 1, 2006, Kittydemon666 said:
Well, I think maybe the first thing you should do is dump your boyfriend (I suppose thats kind of obvious though isn't it?) And maybe not tell him that you are lesbian. At least not for a little while. He might think its his fault... ya know? As far as coming out goes. Do whatever makes you comfortable. If you think you can tell everyone or maybe just your closest friends... thats up to you.